This is a blog about my life in recovery and that of my friends. To talk about my recovery, we also have to talk about my addictions and those of my friends. I will talk about my attempts at recovery and all that I’ve learned through those many attempts. I have been to 17 treatment centers and five detox centers. I have accidentally overdosed six times. I have been to prison, jail and was homeless for nine years. This is a story of those years portrayed to you through a blog entitled Recovery for Success. If you are battling addiction as we speak, I pray for you and give you this advice never quit trying! more

Saturday, November 2, 2013

12 Step Approach

We've all heard of AA or NA, and truth be told there are so many A's out there now that I can't keep them straight.  The first of the two I'm going to talk about is Alcoholics Anonymous or AAAlcoholics Anonymous was made famous by Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith in Akron, Ohio in 1935.

AA states that its members' primary purpose is "to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety". With other early members, Bob Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith developed Alcoholics Anonymous or AA Twelve Step program of spiritual and moral development. Alcoholics Anonymous Twelve Traditions were introduced in 1946 to help AA gain a more secure structure and to help it grow. The Traditions recommend that members and groups remain anonymous in the public eye, selflessly help other alcoholics that wish to stop drinking, and to not affiliate AA with any other organization. The Traditions also recommend that Alcoholics Anonymous members acting on behalf of the fellowship steer clear of any issues involving the public. Some of the other fellowships such as Narcotics Anonymous were formed later and have adopted and adapted the Twelve Steps and the Twelve Traditions to their primary purposes.

Internal surveys on the 12 step approach states that about 40% of it's members stay clean and sober for less than a year.  About 80% of those sober more than one year, but less than five will remain sober and active in one of the many programs for another year. About 90% of the members that can abstain from their addiction for five years or more will stay active in their specific program for the remainder of their life.   

Beware and don't let your guard down.  There is no known cure for addiction.  Unfortunately, the little monkey on your back never leaves.  He just sits there and waits for the right moment in time to pounce and become an active part of your life once again.  I have quit and been active in a 12 step program somewhere between 30 and forty times with varying lengths of sobriety, just to have that monkey come swinging back into my life again.

I use some of the steps in my current plan that has kept me clean and sober for over six years now.  I'm not a strict 12 stepper.  I believe that everyone needs to form his or her own unique recovery system or program.  In my plan, there are what I like to call phases that I went through. I will talk about these in my upcoming post.

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Until then, you can start by taking a good look inside yourself and write down the true reasons you want to be clean and sober.  No reason is stupid or silly, just write it down.  And, once again, read and learn. I have listed a great book at the bottom of this post.  Don't worry if you don't have the money for a book.  There is lots of free information right here on the web.  You've just got to look for it.